Marriage, they say, is the biggest milestone of life's grand journey. For some, it's a quest that's fraught with detours and false starts. Yet, amidst the noise and chaos of the world, I found my beacon of hope, my true love when I was young.
Our story was similar to a fairy tale love story. I am one of those people who experienced love at first sight. When WeiWei first caught my eye, back in 2007, I knew she was the one for me. Even though I was so young and stupid at the time I did my best to make her mine. At the time I did get a chance to marry her but life's circumstances made it so that we couldn't stay together. More lessons needed to be learnt.
we were apart for over 15years, I still didn't give my heart away to any other girls. WeiWei was the only one for me. I just needed to be patient and let time bring us back together again.
Eventually the time did come! And not only did I have the honor of marrying her once, but fate blessed me with the chance to propose to her again—a story that brims with passion and devotion.
Our first meetings after being apart after so many years were magical. When we are together it's like our feeling and emotion is ever-fresh and new. Like no time ever passed. Every time I look at her it's like the feeling of love at first sight again for me. We decided to be be boy-girl friends again, although in the back of my mind I wanted to make the relationship more official.
It took months of meticulous planning, and quest for the ideal moment to whisk her off her feet and declare my unwavering commitment. Finally I felt the time was right, under the wintry sky, during Christmas holidays.
Before the official declaration of my heart, I had been seeking the perfect ring. While in Canada, I delved into countless jewelry stores, pondering the significance of each diamond cut and the depth of our love. My mom helped reassure me, this ring is very important and symbolic. So i should take my time to find the right one. Amidst the glimmering displays, an emerald-cut diamond captured my gaze, surpassing my budget, yet resonating with the essence of the spirit of our love. I knew, without a doubt, that this ring was the vessel for our love—a symbol she would cherish, igniting joy and radiance with each glance. Every time to look at the ring would inspire so much power and remind me how precious our love is.
Fast forward to Christmas 2023, and she's down with a nasty fever. I was nursing her back to health in her apartment in Shenzhen. Our Christmas beach holiday plans? Cancelled! Within the confines of sickness, I vowed to be her steadfast companion, her healer, and her source of comfort. As days passed and she didn't get any healthier, we planned to go to the hospital to investigate more and get to the cause of her sickness. I knew she would be scared at the hospital. There may be moments when she needed strength and I wanted her to have the ring at those moments, to look at it and feel everything would be alright, that the ring had a power to give her energy to overcome the fear of being at the hospital and sick.
I envisioned the perfect scenario to unveil my heart's desire—on the beach, with the sounds of the ocean behind, but I had to let go of that idea and reinvent a realistic way to make the event special and memorable.....Reminiscent of the love letters I used to leave in her pockets years ago...So I took the folded paper heart I made in Canada weeks earlier and tucked into her jeans, written inside the paper heart was the question that would alter our destinies forever.
Then came the moment of truth. it happened at her apartment when we were alone...I put the folded paper heart in the pocket of the jeans she was going to wear that day...later we were going to the hospital and she had already picked out what pants she was going to wear. I didn't exactly know how the proposal would happen or when she would find the note!
But when I noticed she changed her mind to wear other pants, I got nervous! I told her that she looks good in those jeans and want her to wear them and not change!
Luckily around that moment she reached in to the pocket and felt the paper heart inside.
She pulled it out and saw the message written on it.
The pen ink bled through the paper, prematurely revealing my message on the backside of the paper heart! ,"will you marry me?"
As she beheld the heartfelt message, her eyes sparkled, then I presented the ring to her...and asked if she would make me the most happiest guy in the world by saying yes.
With trembling hands, I presented the ring, my soul laid bare, and deeply prayed she would say yes and be happy with me in writing our love story's next chapter.
She immediately hugged me and we laughed!
A moment later, I asked: does this mean 'yes'? Her laugh echoed through the walls, she said: "yes, I do!" And her words sealing our destiny with a promise to stay together, come what may.
Now, as we stand united once more, I am reminded that our love knows no bounds, transcending time and space.
WeiWei, In your heart, I find joy and peace, a sanctuary where time stands still.
With you by my side, the world fades away, leaving only the feeling of our interconnected souls.
Separated by time and distance, our hearts remain tethered, counting the days until our reunion.
For a thousand years, and a thousand more, I will love you with every cell of my being, for ours is a love that defies all odds—a love written in the stars, boundless and eternal.
婚姻是人生旅途中最重要的里程碑。对于一些人来说，这是一场充满曲折和误判的追求。然而，在这个喧嚣纷扰的世界中，我年轻时找到了我的希望、我的真爱。
我们的故事就像童话一样。我是那些一见钟情的人之一。2007年，当WeiWei第一次吸引我的注意时，我就知道她就是我的唯一。尽管当时的我还很年轻、很愚蠢，但我尽了最大的努力让她成为我的女朋友。那时候我确实有机会娶她，但是生活的环境使我们不能在一起。还需要学到更多的东西。
我们分开了15年多，但我仍然没有将我的心交给其他女孩。WeiWei对我来说是唯一的。我只需要耐心等待，让时间把我们再次带在一起。
终于，时机到了！我不仅有幸娶了她一次，还有机会向她再次求婚——这是一个充满激情和奉献的故事。
我们分开多年后的第一次见面是如此的神奇。当我们在一起时，感觉就像是全新的。每次我看着她，就像我第一次爱上她一样。我们决定再次做男女朋友，尽管我心里想让这段关系更正式。
精心策划花了几个月的时间，寻找理想的时机，让她心动，表达我坚定不移的承诺。最后我觉得时机成熟了，在寒冷的冬天、圣诞假期。
在我正式表达心意之前，我一直在寻找完美的戒指。在加拿大的时候，我深入了无数的珠宝店，思考着每一种钻石切割的意义和我们爱情的深度。我妈妈帮我确认，戒指非常重要，具有象征意义。所以我应该花时间找到合适的。在闪闪发光的展示品中，一颗绿宝石切割的钻石引起了我的注意，虽然它超出了我的预算，但它与我们爱情的本质相 resonate着。我毫不犹豫，知道这个戒指是我们爱情的载体 ——她会珍惜的一个象征，每一次的眼神交汇都会点燃喜悦和光芒。每次看到这个戒指，都会激发出强大的力量，提醒我我们的爱情是多么珍贵。
快进到2023年的圣诞节，她得了严重的发烧。我在深圳的公寓里照顾她。我们的圣诞海滩度假计划？取消了！在她生病的困扰下，我发誓要成为她坚定的伴侣、她的治愈者、她的安慰来源。随着日子的过去，她的健康没有好转，我们计划去医院进一步检查，弄清楚她病的原因。我知道她会害怕去医院。可能有时候她需要力量，我希望她在那些时刻能有戒指，看着它，感觉一切都会好起来，戒指有一种力量能给她勇气克服在医院和生病的恐惧。
我设想了一个完美的场景，揭示我内心的渴望——在海滩上，听着海浪声，但我不得不放弃那个想法，重新发明一个现实的方式让这个事件变得特别和难忘......跟很多年前我留在她口袋里的情书很像...所以我拿着在加拿大几周前做的折叠的纸心，塞进了她的牛仔裤里，纸心里写着一个会改变我们命运的问题。
然后，关键时刻到了，就在我们两个人独处的时候，我把折叠的纸心放在了她当天要穿的牛仔裤口袋里……后来我们要去医院，她已经挑好了要穿的裤子。我不知道提议会在什么时候发生，或者她什么时候会发现那张纸！
但是当我注意到她改变主意穿别的裤子时，我有点紧张！我告诉她，她穿这条牛仔裤看起来很好，希望她穿它不要换！
幸运的是，在那个时刻左右，她伸手进口袋，感觉到了里面的纸心。
她拿出来，看到了上面写着的信息。
笔墨穿透了纸，提前揭示了我在纸心背面写的信息！“你愿意嫁给我吗？”
当她看到那个发自内心的信息时，她的眼睛闪闪发光。接着，我拿出了戒指给她……问她是否能让我成为世界上最幸福的男人，她笑着
我颤抖着的手递过戒指，我的心完全展露在她面前，我深深地祈祷她会说“是”，并愿意与我一起写下我们爱情故事的下一章。
她立刻拥抱着我，我们笑了
过了一会儿，我问：“这是不是代表你答应了？”她的笑声在房间里回荡，她说：“是的，我答应！”她的话用一种承诺，将我们的命运紧紧地绑在了一起，不管发生什么。
现在，当我们再次站在一起时，我意识到我们的爱没有界限，超越了时间和空间。
WeiWei，在你的眼中，我找到了喜悦和平静，那是一个停滞的地方。
有了你在我身边，世界都变得不重要了，只留下了我们灵魂的交融。
即使被时间和距离隔开，我们的心仍然紧紧相连，盼望着重逢的日子。
千年之后，再千年，我都会用我所有的爱来爱你，因为我们的爱超越了一切——是一种写在星辰中的爱，无尽而永恒。
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